“Can I do this or cannot do this?” Either way you chose, you are right.

Life is a journey and it is filled with people who come in and go out of our lives.  What we do with the experience gained by these people from coming into our lives is up to you.  Not all experiences are positive.  For me, the secret is what is more valuable?  The hurt or happiness?  Of course it is the one most uplifting. 

Even when building the tallest tower, it begins with the placement of a single stone.  Your life is the Tower and the single stone are the choices that we make each day.  Choice are what shape our reality.  I had spoken on this topic before and it is a very important that choices has consequences.  They are the end result of the decisions we have chosen to make.

I do not thing people truly understand how much influence they put on those around them.  Especially with those who are in what I like to call “Circle of Influence”.  I also have spoken about the power of having a “Circle of Influence”.  You can either benefit from your circle or have it block your personal growth.
  

Without Self-discovery, we will never find out destiny.  Destiny has its role and purpose in the Universe.  But it does not make us who we are.  It can enable us to have direction but to rely on Destiny alone is in my opinion “Foolish”.  Be accountable for what you say or do and take action to become what you want to become.

You hold all the building tools inside you.  Your mind, your “Circle of Influence” and the desire are the tools necessary to pave the roads and create your world.  Having a plan shows you value what you do.  If should anyone make a comment that is not uplifting or positive motivation then you don’t need to listen to it.  Treat it as not input but output of their foolishness. 

In my personal journey I have found people that are in my “Circle of Influence” to be successful in their own right.  They have been uplifting and provide constructive advice.  Sometimes, that advice that has been given was not what I wanted to hear but needed to have been said to engage me to become a better Self.

Someone who I know sent me this, “Nothing binds you except your thoughts, nothing limits you except your fear, and nothing controls you except your beliefs.  “Surrender to the nothingness”- Marianne Williamson.  It is very true statement and our thoughts are what binds our potential.  Thoughts are as strong as words that are spoken.  

We may not realize it but I am sure you have experienced a moment where a thought or word that was spoken had an impact that caused you to have doubt about yourself. “Can I do this or cannot do this?”  Either way you chose, you are right.