"Choice" It Has the Power To Shape Our Reality

"Choice,  It Has the Power To Shape Our Reality"

At one point of time in your life you played with play-dough.  It was fun to create new shapes that come from the thought in our mind.  Those thoughts are a “Choice”.

“Choice” impacts our lives and the lives of others.   It is from our choices that we make and they are great deal of them in a day.   They mold and set us forward or sometimes backward in our journey.  As I was saying earlier abut play-dough and how it creates what we imagine.

We use our hands and tools to sculpt the mound of play-dough that lies in front of us.  Just as the “Choice” we made will shape and smooth out the rough edges of our character.  Character being our habits, attitudes, and personality.  They are formed by our “Choice” we make. 

I have found from personal experiences of the choices I have made.  Some have been great and others not so much.  I really like what Jim Rohn said. 

“Reality begins with imagination.  Imagination is but a thought we create in our minds.  Create the reality your want and with the right action and discipline behind it.  Many things, wonderful things are possible.” 

Just like your Book of Life that tells your story.  Each page is written is from the choices we have made..  We are the story tellers of our journey.  We make it from the decisions we make. I think that this quote speaks volumes

“Our lives are books and each day is a page…we can’t erase what has already been written but we can always try to make the next page better” –unknown

Choice is used every day and effects everyone not just ourselves.  The choices we make now in the present. Causes the ripples and those ripples create our future.  It is our environments both professional and personal that are choices are influenced by.

 But in the end we are the Designers and Developers of our lives.  I encourage you to allow the choices you make lead you to your personal potential. Let the shaping begin.  

Live Better Than You Did Before

Life is funny.  There may come a time where you and that "Person" from the past, may cross paths.  By living better than you did before.  Not only builds confidence, but retains your pride and self worth.  As is, while you were with that "Person". The time you shared was filled with love, affection, and connection. They have chose to go another direction for themselves.   Since you are choosing to live a better life than while the "Person"you were with.  Shows a growth and awareness.  The better life you have created after the "Person".  Where if they had stayed on.  Would have reaped the benefits.  But understand it is not a science. But for me,  my life has gotten better.  Because I recognized my insecurities and acted on them and they are being replaced with solid foundations.

I understand I do not need to be with someone.  I want to be with someone.  Focus on where you want to be.  That is, "What I am doing?" I am realizing that something else was the reason for their choice.  It amazing how ones behavour can be one thing for months. Then the complete opposite.  They are not the "Person"  that I given my emotions, devotion, and affection to.  Now, they are hurtful, bitter, and insensitive.  But these actions have made it easier to focus on my life.


I recommend you take the step to make yourself happy first.  I have made it my focus to make the "Person" my center of my world.  Ensure they know they are loved, I am there, words of affection, and support.  Now, since this situation. I will be better positioned for when I am ready to let someone else in.  I have a plan and that will enable me to be more financially secure.  But know this my heart was broken. But my Spirit was not.

 "My heart was broken. But my Spirit was not." 

Change, Grow and Become

I was listening to a amazing speaker by the name of Jim Rohn.  He was talking about personal growth.  I quite liked what he said, "Welcome all experiences, you never know which one will turn everything on."  A lot has happened to me if the past two weeks.

 But from listening from Jim, I have come to realize that I need set my priorities.  I en courage you who read this. Goal setting is rewarding.  I have been doing some goal setting.  It has resulted in some very positive experience. 

What I like about Change, Grow and Become is this.  With the "Change", a person the experience good or bad. One can choose to "Grow" from it or not.  From the growth, you become something more before the growth.  I have found due to recent events.

 I  have become more of my true self.  I only need myself and that is enough.  I just wished I knew that before hand. But like my mentor shared with me.  People come into our lives.  Sometimes for a reason or for a season.  Sometimes it is both.  For me, I someone come in for both.

Reason: To show that I need to work on me.  Season: Was in my life for a not long.  Long enough to express their emotions.  Things happen for a reason.  I have learned more about myself and I am thankful for them being in my life.

I am on the mend, reaching my goals to position me to be more reliable and self sufficient.  This experience has made that very apparent I have had still unresolved matters.  This hurt was enough for me to get up and take action against my fears.  I challenge you to face yours.  When you over come them, they no long have a hold on you.  Thank you for letting me share my experiences.

The Keys Are Always Accessible

Who we are, is the sum of our thoughts, emotions, and beliefs.  Blend these together with personality.  We have what poets and philosophers have written for centuries and they have said to be the "Essence".   

 Like that of a key that has yet to receive its bumps and ridges.  As a person grows and starts their journey in building their identity.  We begin to define ourselves and individuals.  

A key unlocks things, like doors, gates, and locks.  The key I am referring to is the one we have within us all.  Our attitudes and behaviors we show others are like keys themselves.  

I have come to realize that it is our “essence” that defines who we are.  With the choices we make and the actions we do.  Our key that we are making will be with us every step of our journey.  

This key is morphing and is constantly changing.  With each passing year we learn new skills and gain experience.  We add another key to our “Ring of Knowledge”.  The wonderful thing about the "Ring of Knowledge". The keys are always accessible.

“Ring of Knowledge”