"Choice" It Has the Power To Shape Our Reality

"Choice,  It Has the Power To Shape Our Reality"

At one point of time in your life you played with play-dough.  It was fun to create new shapes that come from the thought in our mind.  Those thoughts are a “Choice”.

“Choice” impacts our lives and the lives of others.   It is from our choices that we make and they are great deal of them in a day.   They mold and set us forward or sometimes backward in our journey.  As I was saying earlier abut play-dough and how it creates what we imagine.

We use our hands and tools to sculpt the mound of play-dough that lies in front of us.  Just as the “Choice” we made will shape and smooth out the rough edges of our character.  Character being our habits, attitudes, and personality.  They are formed by our “Choice” we make. 

I have found from personal experiences of the choices I have made.  Some have been great and others not so much.  I really like what Jim Rohn said. 

“Reality begins with imagination.  Imagination is but a thought we create in our minds.  Create the reality your want and with the right action and discipline behind it.  Many things, wonderful things are possible.” 

Just like your Book of Life that tells your story.  Each page is written is from the choices we have made..  We are the story tellers of our journey.  We make it from the decisions we make. I think that this quote speaks volumes

“Our lives are books and each day is a page…we can’t erase what has already been written but we can always try to make the next page better” –unknown

Choice is used every day and effects everyone not just ourselves.  The choices we make now in the present. Causes the ripples and those ripples create our future.  It is our environments both professional and personal that are choices are influenced by.

 But in the end we are the Designers and Developers of our lives.  I encourage you to allow the choices you make lead you to your personal potential. Let the shaping begin.  

The Power and Strength When Sharing Experiences With Others

I was listening to Jim Rohn and what he spoke on "sharing".  Inspired me to write abut how sharing can be very empowering and strengthen a persons inner core.  It is when we share with others we learn, grow and refine our knowledge of what we have gained.

"Socrates sharing his knowledge"

When we share our skills or experiences with others.  It allows us the opportunity to pass down knowledge and or skills to lift another person to new heights.  This blog is a prime example of sharing.  I know that I have benefited from others sharing their life of their story.   I want to give back and pay it forward.  Let other benefit from my "Life Lessons" as I have from others.  What I have experienced for myself.  I am not the only one.  For those who are going through similar situations as I have.  May they find hope that there is a light at the end of their long "tunnel"  Then I have paid it forward.

" May they find hope that there is a light at the end of their long tunnel"

Like I had said in "Attitude has a frequency. What is yours?"  I was limiting myself.  My thoughts and what I chose to believe about what I could not accomplish.   Caused me to not unlock my true potential.  There have been others who have said "Gordon, I see such potential in you" or "You have so much talent in you. Three is nothing once you put your mind to it."  I really did not put much faith in myself or confidence for that matter.  I was confident minded but not confident in myself.

Since I have changed my way of thinking and focus.  I have found my "Common Sense". Originally, it was skewed and now I actually stop and think before I do something.  No more being thoughtless minded.  I put "Action" to my fears (my insecurities) which has allowed me to be in my opinion "Limitless".  I am living better than I have before and it shows by the results I am getting. My new work has allowed me to have better source of income. The income has enabled to have more financial security that I had before.   Which has freed me from stress and uncertainty.

I have no more fears, I am becoming more than what I was because I am no longer placing limitations on myself.  All this is because I have chosen to share my Book of my life with you.  To show that it can be done and it is real.   Jim Rohn said, Reality begins with imagination.  Imagination is but a thought we create in our minds.  Create the reality your want and with the right action and discipline behind it.  Many things, wonderful things are possible.  

Attitude has a frequency. What is yours?

The power of our attitude is incredible.  Our attitudes are what mold our thoughts, directions, and in a lot of cases our beliefs.  Whether it is a good or bad attitude.  Then both impact our lives and those around us.  The great Spiritual, Motivational, and Business speakers all talk about the strength of having a positive attitude.

Our minds are transmitting and receiving 24/7.  It has been documented that the brain is emitting brain waves.  There are various types of brain waves.

- Delta waves (below 4 hz) occur during sleep
- Theta waves (4-7 hz) are associated with sleep, deep relaxation (like hypnotic relaxation), and   
   visualization
- Alpha waves (8-13 hz) occur when we are relaxed and calm
- Beta waves (13-38 hz) occur when we are actively thinking, problem-solving, etc.

 As you can see they have a frequency.  It has been said that when one "Tunes"  their brain.  Then like frequencies attract each other.  Such as people, finance, and lifestyle.  Let me share with you a port of my recent experiences with you.  As I had written in the past of how something changed my life and I chose to to switch from putting energy into "Emotional Security" and focus on my "Financial Security".  I am proud to share with you that it is working.

Since my "Shift", in my frequency and energy.  I am attracting more financial security.   I will have only one major responsibility at the end the month.  In about two months according to my "Milestone".  I will reach the half way mark for funds needed to to bring my balance to half.  I now have savings should something happen I am covered.  I share this with you because if I can accomplish this.  Nothing is out of your reach.  We are limited to the limitations we place on ourselves.  We are "Limitless" and we have the power to make our reality. There was a saying I heard.
" If you fail to plan.  You plan to fail."

" If you fail to plan.  You plan to fail."

With what I have experienced in the recently.  I have found my "Common Sense".  My common sense was suede.  That is why it was asked why did I not know this or that.  I was never placed in a position to learn it.  Now, I have been put in to a position and have gained the knowledge and experienced I was missing.   With my new common sense has me thinking for myself and taking care of me.  It was easier to take care of others than myself.  I was wrong and we need to take care of ourselves.  I had displayed that I was not able to do that.  We all make mistakes.  It is what we do after that makes us grow and become more from the event. Mistakes for me are lessons 'Life" gives us to learn, grow and become more than what we were before the new experience.

 

                                                 Learn

                                                  Grow

                                              Become

"Learn, Grow, Become more than what we were before."

Who I was in February is but a memory.  I have grown from the event and better because of it.  I am thankful for the experience and lessons that came from it.  As I have said before.  Our past does not make our future.  What we do in the present is what creates our future.  That is why the "present" is a gift to ourselves.

"That is why the "present" is a gift to ourselves."

 Because  I chose to have a positive attitude and not the negative.  I have been able to reach my goals which had "Milestones" to mark the way to my financial security become a reality.  It is our attitude that is part of who we are as a person.  If I need to do something or I don't know it. I research it and get the answers I need.  I am realizing I had put limitations on myself and know that I had placed myself into that state of mind. 

My way of thinking and doing things for myself has changed.  Which has resulted in my new lifestyle and how is am choosing to life my life.  Like I said earlier, "Live better than you did before."  I am and my life has improved. I have savings now. I now only have one major responsibility to deal with and even that in two months is reduced to half of a balance being owed.  I have grown and become more than what  the person I was in February. If I can achieve these things. I know that you can too.  Action will always over come FEAR.

"Action will always over come FEAR."

The Power of A.C.T.

A part of my seminars I would talk about the The Power of A.C.T. and the effects it has on us.  Attitude, Communication, and Trust are like Green, Yellow, Blue, which make up the Primary Colors.  With your attitude, how you communicate, and the trusts you build all require you to act on it.  

      Primary Colors, sets of colors that can be combined to make a useful range of color

      A.C.T. sets of qualities that when combined make connections and relationship. 

It is because we understand the primary colors we can distinguish colors.  But imagine what we can unlock when we begin to understand how are attitudes be it a positive or negative.  The manor in how we communicate be it verbal or by our gestures.  The different levels of trusts that are forged.  Together, it can open or close opportunities as quick as a thought.  

When we learn to understand how all these have a symbiotic relationship with each other. We discover and uncover life's unique symphony.  Just like as notes are arranges in a song. It is knowing how each note works. It creates the melody.  What I like about using primary colors is we all understand how they effect our everyday lives.

Notes

Combine them and you get... "Melody"

 

For years I have been asked what is my "Secret" or "How did you get to be so personable?" What I say to that is fun made me so here I am.  I had learned at an earlier age that it is your attitude and how you communicate it builds the trust which creates the relationships both professionally and personally.  

If you like what I have been sharing with you.  Please let me know what your thoughts are in the comments section.  In February, I am planning to have a seminar in Calgary, Alberta.  I will be discussing in more detail about Positive Power and how the Power is in YOU! 

 Tthe Power is in YOU!

The Keys Are Always Accessible

Who we are, is the sum of our thoughts, emotions, and beliefs.  Blend these together with personality.  We have what poets and philosophers have written for centuries and they have said to be the "Essence".   

 Like that of a key that has yet to receive its bumps and ridges.  As a person grows and starts their journey in building their identity.  We begin to define ourselves and individuals.  

A key unlocks things, like doors, gates, and locks.  The key I am referring to is the one we have within us all.  Our attitudes and behaviors we show others are like keys themselves.  

I have come to realize that it is our “essence” that defines who we are.  With the choices we make and the actions we do.  Our key that we are making will be with us every step of our journey.  

This key is morphing and is constantly changing.  With each passing year we learn new skills and gain experience.  We add another key to our “Ring of Knowledge”.  The wonderful thing about the "Ring of Knowledge". The keys are always accessible.

“Ring of Knowledge”

The Power of Positive Intentions

With a positive attitude, people will be more than willing to approach you and this is beneficial because people will not feel threatened, but welcomed.  Being negative towards others, harbors the opposite response and people will avoid you and will be less willing to approach you.

 

An example of positive thinking is when the coach tells the team that they are a winning team.  Once the team believes in it, the y become the product of what they believe.  They begin to develop their own confidence that will give them a key to unlock the doors of opportunity.  This key is their personal inner power all have and we call this, "Positive Power." 

 

 The Power of One Thought

How you act in the view of others reflects the type o person who you may be.  

Unless the image you portray is false.  Then you are only fooling yourself.  True strength comes from accepting who you  are and having the confidence to show to other who we truely are.  

It is better to show the real you.  Be proud of who you are.  There is strength in confidence and power in knowing who you are is special. 

"Believe in you. Others will also believe in you."

Over the years when speaking at my seminars and workshops.  I am always learning more from the those who attended.  People have commented on the benefits of A.C.T. - Attitude, Communication and Trust.  That is for another time to share with you.  Stay tuned.